Welcome to Cornish Speed Dating

We love creating an inviting, safe environment, in charming bars around Cornwall, giving the opportunity for single adults to form meaningful connections, with the possibility of making new friends, and finding romance or love. Our friendly hosts and well-organised events make meeting people easy and lots of fun. Come with a smile and an open mind, and see what happens.....

You never know who you're going to meet!! πŸ’•

How it works!

 

On our speed dating nights, we like to create a fun and relaxing atmosphere. On arrival, everyone receives a warm welcome, wears a name badge, and is shown a quick briefing of the format. Whilst you are settling in, you can grab yourself a refreshing drink from the bar and chat to fellow daters.

Get ready........the first bell rings, to signal the start of the mini dates!

 

For the Speed Dating segment;

 

Ladies usually stay seated, as the Gentlemen switch seats one by one, in order of ascending table numbers - when the bell rings!

As you meet each person, enjoy your conversations, simply fill in your scorecard afterwards, and indicate whether you'd like to see them again. If you have both selected a Tick βœ”οΈor Yes for each other that equals a MATCH (you are informed the next day)!!

You get five minutes per date. Plus there are mingling opportunities throughout, with intervals in between for toilet breaks and a drink top up. 

The number of dates you get at an event are depending on ticket sales, and venue size! We aim for a minimum of eight mini dates per person, to a maximum of fifteen!

Notes can be included, to help make your decision for the matching process on your scorecard. We suggest taking a photo of your scorecard when completed, for your own records, before handing back to the host before you leave the venue.

You will be contacted the following morning, via email, or text with your match results, and the phone numbers of those you have been matched with. Who makes the next move is down to you, the next step on your dating adventure is in your hands....

 

Discover a space where every moment is an opportunity for something beautiful to blossom. Here, the possibilities are endless - and the right person might just be waiting for you!

🌟 UPCOMING EVENTS 2025 🌟

✨️ For Ages 50 plus

πŸ—“ Friday 17th January 2025

πŸ•• From: 6pm until 8.30pm

 

Early Bird Tickets Buy Now 🐦🎫

(until 16th Dec)

https://square.link/u/gqSbqmBK

 

Standard Ticket 🎟 (Buy from 17th Dec)

https://square.link/u/P5BdK3eW

 

πŸ“Venue address; 

The Carclaze, St. Austell Enterprise Park, Treverbyn Road Carclaze, St. Austell, PL25 4EJ

 

Arrive between 6pm and 6.45pm. Feel free to grab yourself a refreshing drink from the main bar, then come to the private function room and chat to fellow daters. You will be given your name badge, and a quick briefing of the format.

 

There will be up to 11 dates per person! 5 minutes, per date. Plus there is mingling opportunities throughout, with intervals in between for toilet breaks and a drink top up.

(For more details see above 'How it works')

 

πŸ—“ Saturday 1st February

🧭 6pm til 9pm

❀️ For Ages 40 +

Early Bird Ticket £18 🎟🐦

Buy now:

https://square.link/u/hAj4ysN3

(until 16th Dec) 

Standard Ticket £22

https://square.link/u/dzhK6qO7

(Buy from 17th Dec) 🎟

Venue

The Lugger Inn, The Promenade, 3 Marine Terrace, Penzance TR18 4DL

 

Cornish Speed Dating is excited to bring new opportunities for connections to Penzance, in a fabulous location on The Promenade. With ample space and a well organised night of fun interactions. For singsingles 40plus living in Cornwall, (you don't have to be Cornish).

 

How it works;

Arrive between 6pm and 6.45pm. We will be holding the speed dating in the private function room, (it's the far opposite end of the building from the bar side) We will greet you there, and you'll be given your name badge, and a quick briefing of the format. Feel free to grab yourself a refreshing drink from the bar and chat to fellow daters. 

 

For the speed dating segment - Ladies stay seated, as the Gentlemen switch seats one by one in order of table numbers - when the bell rings! As you meet each person, fill in your scorecard and indicate whether you'd like to see them again.

 

You get five minutes, per date. Plus there is mingling opportunities throughout, with intervals in between for toilet breaks and a drink top up. Up to 15 dates per person....

 

 

Frequently Asked Questions

Why try speed dating?

Are you bored of dating apps - with choice overload, ghosting, catphishes, screen consumption? We create these events to give you a break from all that and the digital world! Nothing beats authenticity and meeting in person.

I am feeling nervous but I really want to meet someone...

We understand that most people will be feeling somewhat nervous before attending this event, and we encourage you to step outside of your comfort zone and try it anyway. Overcoming the nerves and attending brings a rewarding feeling and many benefits. Like gaining confidence as well as the prospect of meeting someone for you. We endeavour to make people feel as comfortable as possible with a warm welcome. Plus refreshing bar drinks are always available for those needing that bit of dutch courage.

Do I have to be Cornish to attend?

All are welcome to attend who are living permanently in Cornwall. Our name is more to do with location than where you were born.

What Age group should I attend?

Experience of previous events shows us that there is a mixed range of twenty years or so, from the starting age group.

E.g. 30 plus will stretch to people attending up to 50 years old/early 50s. 

Also bare in mind, we don't know how many people in their 30s, or 40s will be there. We recommend not to get too hung up over the ages and focus more on connection. If you're not sure, try both age groups! We are not strict on capping the age ranges, as we like to leave this for your own discernment. 

 

 

How many dates do you get, and how does Speed Dating work?

It depends on the venue size and attendance on the night but we aim for at least 8 mini dates per person, and anywhere up to 14 is the maximum. Each one is around 5 minutes long. At the sound of the ringing bell gentlemen switch seats to the next table with a lady sat at each one. Chat away and see if there's a connection. As you date each person, fill out your scorecard and indicate whether you'd like to see them again, along with any handy notes. The completed scorecard is given to the host at the end, and you will receive your match results the next day. 

What shall we talk about on each date?

Anything you wish, and we encourage you to be your authentic self, honest and open! As long as it's mutual topics and appropriate! Most people want to know the area you live, your job, your hobbies and interests, and find that that is enough to get the ball rolling until time is up. (The time does go really fast so make the most of it). We also provide some fun ice breaker questions on the tables, for other ideas, should you need them.

What is your cancellation policy?

If for any reason you need to cancel your booking, please inform us immediately. Our events rely on an even number of male/female attendees and the seating to be at full capacity in order to give everyone the maximum opportunity to find a match. Full refunds are given 7 or more days before the event date (minus a £2.50 admin fee).  

Is five minutes too long/too short to speed date?

We believe five minutes is a long enough indicator to know if you'd like to spend more time getting to know a person after attending Cornish Speed Dating.

Most people can tell if they're attracted to someone in the first 90 seconds after they meet, which bodes well for speed dating. Imagine all the time consumption from messaging, and money spent on individual dates, after meeting them from a dating app? They might not be your cup of tea, after all that effort.

At speed dating, what you see is what you get. It avoids awkwardly making excuses to leave, if you're not into that person, you get to move onto your next date in a few more minutes. Without revealing to their face whether you want to see them again. Just note a yes or no next to their name, and we do the rest. Match results revealed the following morning.

 

FEEDBACK

"Thank you Rebecca, it was a good evening and a really good environment. Very welcoming and nice. I'm more than happy with the outcome, Thank you so much"

(Speed dating participant)

 

"Thank you, Rebecca

It's very exciting to get the results and makes it a bit more real! I'm pleased though. I had a great time and am recommending it to people.

Time to be vulnerable and see what happens, I guess. 

Cheers for now,"

(Speed dating participant)

Contact us

Get in touch with us 

About Us

We love Cornwall and are proud to be Cornish! Setting up Cornish Speed Dating came about, when a few years ago, being single, I searched for speed dating events nearby, but they were all so far away. Intrigued by the concept of speed dating, after tediously swiping through dating apps with screen overload and struggling to fathom a connection with anyone. I wondered if there were single people out there feeling similar about dating apps - and decided to go ahead and bring speed dating to Cornwall. With years of experience in hospitality, administration, events, customer care and dating, I found this mission to help people connect outside the digital world an absolute joy and pleasure! Thank you to friends, family, venue managers, bar staff, and of course our lovely customers for helping this manifest into a fruitful venture and provide a wonderful matchmaking service.

Here's to finding Love ❀️